My younger sister happens to be married to a 3rd generation Irish American, so I am in support of miscegenation by all means.*bold type-face used for my emphasis*
Sounds like 'some members' are very racist indeed. God forbid if she ever fell in love with a 'round eye'... eh?
However, what Asian American males generally find offensive about Asian American actresses like Lucy Liu paired with white actors in Hollywood films "all of the time" is the message that is sent out to the mass media implying that Asian American males are not even desirable to the Asian American women who are from their own community within the United States.
As it stands, Asian American males have no status as leads in Hollywood films (You be the judge why they are generally underemployed in front of the camera in Hollywood films?), and are usually given the roles of waiters and delivery boys, or stereotypical gangsters (The Fast and the Furious, Lethal Weapon 4) or the perpetual-stereotypical martial artist in major Hollywood productions, yet we also have to be humiliated by having Asian American women paired with white men all of the time too even in seminal Asian American novels/films like The Joy Luck Club. I know what Hollywood is doing, and I personally do not like the way they operate.
Not only do Asian American males "not get the girl" in major Hollywood productions, but they also do not get "the Asian/Asian American girl," either as evidenced by Hollywood films such as Enter the Dragon, Snow Falling on Cedars, Charlie's Angels, and The Last Samurai just to name a few.
It was criminal that Aaliyah and Jet Li didn't kiss at the end of ... oh, what the hell, the movie was so bad anyway, I forgot its name. They could've kissed in a grand matrimonial ceremony and it wouldn't have saved the film.
On the upside (a very very brief upside), I'm noticing that on TV shows and commercials, there are a bit more Asian American males being portrayed as powerful and/or who do get the girl, or are used as some sort of representative of male beauty. Hollywood, though, has much catching up to do. I'm of the belief that there are more Asian American male heroes out there, but not as main protagonists or love interests.