The Romulan way is a devout duty to the stateI'm actually leaning toward the Romulan way being a bit better. I can't get behind their political choice, but in regards (apparently) shunning telepathic abilities in favor of retaining emotional expression.
Individually Romulans seem more stable and not prone to loosing control. Their political ambitions aside.

Myself, I miss Munchos chips, and they seem to have generally vanished as well. It makes one wonder how Spock might freak out over time if he were denied Plomeek soup permanently.