Where do I start?
I'm a translator and linguist, and I can't stand Darmok because it's so illogical to speak only in metaphor without being able to explain the concrete background to the metaphor. Human languages certainly don't work like that, and I have a hard time accepting an alien civilzation would survive long enough to evolve to that point.
^^this, great point
Even entertaining the idea that other species might have different structure doesn't work as, with no universal translator, the Tamarians are using English metaphors mixed-up. If they did survive long enough, the greater complexity definitely wasn't hinted at in the story. Makes for a cool iron-on t-shirt patch, though.
I despise Space Seed with a completely irrational, visceral hatred. Khan Noonien Singh is such a slimy character that just looking at him makes me feel sick, and I do not understand what Marla saw in him.
The plot is inconsistent and vague, but isn't the audience supposed to hate him for being slimy like that? I'll get back to the plot points in a second, but first:
It might have been easier to understand why a 20th century human would have had the jiggies for Khan. But 23rd? McGivers, whose name and profession Kirk readily dismisses (it's almost fourth wall*) and given the esoteric relevance of her position it's hard to blame him at times. Human history couldn't match up with other species' histories at all and nobody was expecting a bunch of humans in a sleeper ship so far away from Earth. it's one delightful plot contrivance, which has to be rolled with for the story to work.
* and if it is, it's the best type because it doesn't consciously detract from the story for the sake of a self-aware meta ha-ha joke. But Kirk had made quips in the past that weren't meta, so this is still in-character for season one Kirk.
All the bridge crew have that scene where they're romanticizing the guy and Spock chimes in, but Kirk did make an interesting point with:
KIRK: Mister Spock, we humans have a streak of barbarism in us. Appalling, but there, nevertheless.
Even in the 23rd century, humans weren't perfect. The only difference is, none of the dudes had jiggy for Khan and, being 1960s television, that wouldn't have been hinted at. Then again, the episode also states that records from that time period were rare, so how does everybody know for oh-so-sure he was really bad toward his people? Because the story goes out of its way because it wouldn't be very interesting otherwise, not to mention Khan wanting to take the ship but was seemingly quick to want to make it go boom-boom like a sun going supernova because... there's 5 minutes left in the story?! Yeah, "Space Seed" has some terrific acting and one-liners (especially by the sarcastic and sardonic Dr McCoy), but the underlying plot trying to hold it all together isn't perfect either.
The last ten minutes somewhat redeemed her as she at least saved her crewmates, but just no.
The power of plot - should have been a song written by a rock band.
The episode is among my three least favorite TOS episodes, along with Turnabout Intruder and Spock's Brain. Those two were slightly saved by absolutely amazing acting, like the dead eyes of Spock make you think there's no consciousness inhabiting that body and the way Shatner and Sandra Smith mirror each other's body language. TWOK is also my least favorite Trek movie and the fan service remake Into Darkness is only marginally better.
I'm starting to agree with your points a lot more. The acting is played with total sincerity and verisimilitude that, goofy plot ideas aside, was a lot easier to buy into. Smith and Shatner both excel.
That said, "Spock's Brain"'s big idea of having a brain run a glorified HVAC system as the big reveal is one of many factors that rightly put it into the "bad episode" category but, dang, Nimoy makes Spock work incredibly well. Plus, the bridge scene where everyone gets to say their theory as to which planet might just be the one was pretty cool. Shame the projection viewscreen was replaced after that episode with overlay as well...
Into Darkness was hit or miss, and the worst part is that it didn't need Khan whatsoever as, until that sappy reveal, the movie felt like it was doing something properly new. That "plot twist" puts it under TWOK for me as it's not even innovative.
Another character I absolutely can't stand is Q, so Encounter at Farpoint is by far my least favorite Trek pilot episode. The only episode where I find him even marginally tolerable is the one where he's temporarily mortal.
I'm going to go cry now... LOL, just kidding. I can sorta see why the unpredictable chaotic-neutral trope would be disliked. Chaotic-evil in "Q Who" where his antics kill 18 crew. Chaotic-good in some later stories, especially "True Q" and "All Good Things".