Yeah I totally agree with that. I think Riker should have made a couple more comments on how the Titan A is basically an entirely new ship and Geordi could have made a quip about it looking so similar to the Shangri-La. It doesnt really add up to 'caring' but it would have helped put a bandade over some of the inconsistencies in the writing, in particular Picard calling the A a refit, and having the crew use some sort of tool or unique feature of the A that helps them in the battle with the changeling ship. Make the ship their on have some benefit to their situation and then it can be appreciated.A ship's function is in service to the story. Some garner more aesthetic pleasure but that affection usually doesn't come unless the characters care.
But lets be real, as soon as the Enterprise D was unveiled none of the crew or the audience gave a flying one about the Titan A
