So what, people who remain with their partner after the transition are inhuman?
The point of the matter was the obviously incorrect acronym used above was inappropriate at best and completely offensive at worst.There's also the easier to remember term:
QUILTBAG
Or go for QUILTBAG+
Q (queer and questioning)
U (unsure)
I (intersex)
L (lesbian)
T (transgender & two-spirit)
B (bisexual)
A (asexual and aromantic)
G (gay and genderqueer)
+ (many other terms)
The point of the matter was the obviously incorrect acronym used above was inappropriate at best and completely offensive at worst.
Ridiculous.Phobia in Greek literally means "fear" and what Bevervely feels is fear. Homophobia isn't just expressed by people with torches and pitchforks screaming "LET'S BURN THE F@@@@ING FA**GOTS!!!" It is on a spectrum and reducing it to only its most obvious manifestations does a disservice to all the LBGTQI+ people who suffer countless microaggressions every day. Being a gatekeeper on what is true "homophobia" I think is not the best thing to do.
What? It most certainly is not. Definitions of “homophobia” include “irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or gay people” (see Merriam-Webster), “harmful or unfair things a person does based on a fear or dislike of gay people or queer people” (via the Cambridge Dictionary) and “culturally produced fear of or prejudice against homosexuals” (from the Encyclopedia Britannica). Your definition of “using a word properly” doesn't make sense, because people almost universally use the term “homophobia” to mean “bigotry against homosexuals” and almost never to literally refer to “fear of homosexuals”. A word doesn’t always continue to mean what it originally meant. That’s just not how language works.That is literally an example of "not using the word properly".
Of course I want her to sound like a real person! Real in the sense that she’s believable within the reality of the story in which she appears. Real absolutely doesn't mean here that she has to sound like the most common denominator representative of an early 90s television audience and should be mirroring their opinions and prejudices. The argument that you want to make, that her basically saying “I’m so sorry, but I’m personally not attracted to women.” would prevent her from sounding like a real person on a starship in the far future isn’t convincing to me. She can sound like a real person and say something that’s more intellectually challenging to the expectations and norms of an average 90s audience — they are not mutually exclusive.This is a somewhat bizarre argument, since by and large writers are praised for making their characters act and sound like real people... I know I much prefer that.
She’s in fact speaking so “clearly” that this scene went totally unnoticed by the audience during its original airing and ever since. There’s no people anywhere who have been talking about the way Beverly is telling Odan off and how it sounds a bit iffy, that’s how “clearly” she’s speaking only about herself and not humans in general. Right.She didn't need to say it. At no point was it ever implied that it is not ok to be gay. She is very clearly speaking about herself, her experiences, and the situation well beyond just Odan now being a female. There is just absolutely no reason to add something like that in, and would only hurt the emotional tone of the scene by pulling the audience out of the emotional moment to make a point about it being ok to be gay.
In which case it would be between 12 or 69 people identifying as LGBTQ+ in a crew of a thousand, no? Not 6 or 7.I was going by US data
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_...ncluding,adult population identifying as LGBT.
Somewhere from 1.2% to 6.9% depending on the study.
No, I just disagree with this. A more aesthetically worded version of "Oh sorry, i'm not gay but it's ok to be if someone else is." would have been infinitely more powerful, thought-provoking, challenging and progressive than what we got.Because that wasn't the story being told and the writers were not interested in telling that story.
I think her actually saying "humanity" is even better, rather than adding in the pro-LGBT message, the episode is telling us that while we have come very far, we still have a long way to go.
That's so much more powerful than "Oh sorry, i'm not gay but it's ok to be if someone else is."
Of course I want her to sound like a real person! Real in the sense that she’s believable within the reality of the story in which she appears. Real absolutely doesn't mean here that she has to sound like the most common denominator representative of an early 90s television audience and should be mirroring their opinions and prejudices. The argument that you want to make, that her basically saying “I’m so sorry, but I’m personally not attracted to women.” would prevent her from sounding like a real person on a starship in the far future isn’t convincing to me. She can sound like a real person and say something that’s more intellectually challenging to the expectations and norms of an average 90s audience — they are not mutually exclusive.
In which case it would be between 12 or 69 people identifying as LGBTQ+ in a crew of a thousand, no? Not 6 or 7.
No, I just disagree with this. A more aesthetically worded version of "Oh sorry, i'm not gay but it's ok to be if someone else is." would have been infinitely more powerful, thought-provoking, challenging and progressive than what we got.
Don't do this please. Use one of the real acronyms.LBGTQWERTY is the latest thing to be commodified
Especially since if you go by the original Latin, "homo" means "man", hence our species name. So, homophobia would be simply mean "fear of men".A word doesn’t always continue to mean what it originally meant. That’s just not how language works.
I actually thought that this was what was being mocked by the QWERTY thing, the ever-changing acronym and flag. Personally I thought it kind of funny and I say that as someone represented by the B.After the T tends change around in some people's preferences and I don't really care enough to stay on top of what the lastest verbiage is.
Ok, for the sake of argument let's imagine that Beverly had been bisexual, a perfect 3 on the Kinsey scale. That when she turned smiling waiting for Odan's third guest she continued to smile after seeing her.I guess that's where i'll just leave this, because I disagree in the opposite direction. That would make an absolute dud of an ending and rip much of the emotional weight from the entire episode, for the sole purpose of appeasing a small group of people who will overanalyze the dialogue 30 years later.
I'm going to go ahead and agree to disagree here, I don't think there is anything much more to be said. Glad to have had the discussion. Love getting different perspectives.
Would this have made her? Some mystical being who had mysteriously managed to overcome the insurmountable limits of "human failing" centuries, if not millennia in advance, or simply a person whose sexual orientation fortunately suited the situation?
I actually thought that this was what was being mocked by the QWERTY thing, the ever-changing acronym and flag. Personally I thought it kind of funny and I say that as someone represented by the B.
Ok, for the sake of argument let's imagine that Beverly had been bisexual, a perfect 3 on the Kinsey scale. That when she turned smiling waiting for Odan's third guest she continued to smile after seeing her.
Would this have made her? Some mystical being who had mysteriously managed to overcome the insurmountable limits of "human failing" centuries, if not millennia in advance, or simply a person whose sexual orientation fortunately suited the situation?
With the ending of “The Host,” I think it’s trying to serve multiple masters and ends up muddled.
i.e., DS9 changes it later to where each new host brings something different to the union, so Odan would NOT be the same person she fell in love with, and the relationship would be taboo according to Trill custom).
The homo in homosexual is derived from greek and means "same" or "identical" as opposed to hetero which means "different" or "other". Homo in homo sapiens is derived from latin where it means "man", it can be confusing but homophobia as a greek word doesn't mean "fear of man"Especially since if you go by the original Latin, "homo" means "man", hence our species name. So, homophobia would be simply mean "fear of men".
Yep. It's like "homogeneous", "homophone" or "homozygote".The homo in homosexual is derived from greek and means "same" or "identical" as opposed to hetero which means "different" or "other". Homo in homo sapiens is derived from latin where it means "man", it can be confusing but homophobia as a greek word doesn't mean "fear of man"
I wondered why that was.Yep. It's like "homogeneous", "homophone" or "homozygote".
homophobia as a greek word doesn't mean "fear of man"
As long as everyone is being pedantic, homophobia is a word coined by psychologist George Weinberg in the 1960s and isn't Greek at all, just made from Greek morphemes jammed together.homophobia as a greek word
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