I forget where I read this, but Meyer has talked in an interview (or interviews) about how revealing that Kirk had cheated on the Kobayashi Maru test was the kind of nuanced characterization you could only do in the movies, whereas on TV, the hero was pretty much always in the right, with no shades of gray.I get the impression that Meyer was critical of Star Trek, feeling that was part of what he was hired to do, and wanted to do without certain elements of the original series: specifically Kirk winning even when defying orders, and Kirk having a lot of relationships.
It's an oversimplification, perhaps (TOS definitely gave Kirk come interesting conflicts & contradictions), but I totally see where Meyer was coming from.