It's invasive (she may blame her parent's recklessness for the family's being assimilated).
The audience is supposed to take pity on Shaw having HIS issues with the Borg while at the same time telling Seven to get over hers?
I never said anything about Shaw's issues, even though I find the writing about this both questionable and unoriginal.
What are Seven's reasons for clinging to her Borg name after so many years? Did the series explain this? And she preferred the nature of how the Borg had renamed her?