I am working toward becoming a professional writer myself. In the hopes of learning and growing as a writer, I read lots of reviews, both here on the board and in other places. My question is this. How does everyone handle the constant nit-picking and unkind criticisms that some readers express about your work? I don’t mean the helpful criticisms that we all look for in order to learn and grow and improve, I mean criticisms that aspects of your books aren’t the reader’s tastes or preferences..
It helps to develop a thick skin. Personally, the only bad reviews that really bug me are the ones that move beyond the text to question my motives or fan cred. "Cox obviously churned this one out for the money." "Cox has obviously never watched the TV show." "Cox obviously hates my favorite character." Etc.
The way I see it, the actual words on the page are fair game. Have at them. But don't presume to read my mind and tell my WHY I wrote something the way I did.
Meanwhile, you should almost always resist the temptation to argue with your critics. You never end up looking well.