I think if a few more men were shown as frightened or weak in a fight, we wouldn't be using those examples because both genders can have those traits.
As far as what Janice Lester said, she might have a point, but not in the way people keep thinking. I've always looked at that line as they were already married to the job, which is pretty much spot on. Except Sisko, no other STAR TREK lead captain has been married. We've only seen a couple examples of married Starfleet captains... LaForge's mom, Jellico (this is more implied, since he mentions his son), and Riker in NEMESIS, and that scenario was really just finishing that storyline.
I know TOS has also been referred to as being more about women being eye candy than men. I would probably agree with that, but that's been going on since tv began. One thing that ENTERPRISE was great at was being pretty equal in terms of eye candy for men and women. They ramped up the sex drive, but at least they were more willing to be equal about it. (Though to be fair, shirtless Kirk has made an appearance quite often in seasons 1 and 2.)
While TOS probably has aged the worst of all the shows, I have never had a problem watching any episode and view them all without the judgments of the current era. I'm able to fully enjoy my shows because I can separate the era a show is produced and the current views of the world.
As far as what Janice Lester said, she might have a point, but not in the way people keep thinking. I've always looked at that line as they were already married to the job, which is pretty much spot on. Except Sisko, no other STAR TREK lead captain has been married. We've only seen a couple examples of married Starfleet captains... LaForge's mom, Jellico (this is more implied, since he mentions his son), and Riker in NEMESIS, and that scenario was really just finishing that storyline.
I know TOS has also been referred to as being more about women being eye candy than men. I would probably agree with that, but that's been going on since tv began. One thing that ENTERPRISE was great at was being pretty equal in terms of eye candy for men and women. They ramped up the sex drive, but at least they were more willing to be equal about it. (Though to be fair, shirtless Kirk has made an appearance quite often in seasons 1 and 2.)
While TOS probably has aged the worst of all the shows, I have never had a problem watching any episode and view them all without the judgments of the current era. I'm able to fully enjoy my shows because I can separate the era a show is produced and the current views of the world.