Again, not saying that there isn't legitimate criticism-most of the most vocal Discovery defenders were not about to defend Tilly's promotion to XO, and I question it as well. But, it is what it is and working within that story is part of my engagement with the material.I don’t question that there’s sexism behind some people’s criticism of Discovery, but Tilly is a young ensign abruptly promoted to first officer. She’s more Wesley than Riker, and Wesley has taken no shortage of criticism and outright hate.
What I am referring to is the idea every single past mistake Tilly or Burnham is used as ammo against them. That doesn't strike me as criticism but just beating them up for the sake of it.