Yeah, by me saying "connect" I didn't mean it in that way, so it was a poor choice of words.I guess it is how it was handled. If you're staying in the same era and everyone is referencing everyone else then it is smaller. If you are tackling different facets of the same era without referencing other shows then maybe it could work that way.
Mostly I am talking bigger in the sense that not everyone knows everyone else. The galaxy is big, even in one era, and having Pike know everyone is making it small.
I should have just stuck with set it all in the same timeline. Like I first said:
The goal is to have Star Trek always on, so it'll be interesting (to me, at least) to see Star Trek done in "real time." Have Star Trek running 45 or 50 weeks out of the year, and have multiple shows, but every few weeks or so you jump from one show to the next. You see what's going on for x amount of weeks on a show with a seasoned crew, and when we look in this time we see that they're on their way to whatever (a diplomatic mission to Alderaan... wait), and then you go over and check in for a couple of weeks on a Star Trek show set on earth at Starfleet Headquarters or something. Then go off and follow a new crew for about a month as they begin their new five-year mission. And so on...
Whether they know each other or not isn't important. And you're right, everyone knowing each other does make it small. And I personally don't like that kind of story telling, anyway.
(And as an aside, given that Michael Burnham is my favorite character: it's fine that Burnham and Spock are "related." But if she had no connection whatsoever with Spock it wouldn't have changed anything for me as it pertains to the character. It probably would have made her a better character, in my opinion. As it stands, it's like, "Okay, that was neat. You didn't have to do it, but it was neat.")
Anyway, so I say just put it all at the same time. "Connect" it that way.