I don't mind the presence of humor, just sometimes it's a little crude, and sometimes they don't separate it out enough from the weighty moments.
I think Family Guy gets away with it because it's so ridiculous, the characters don't have enough of the feeling of realness to get emotionally invested enough to see consequence.
I think that's the problem. There was an article about 80s teen comedy films that made light of rape, sexual assault, and lack-of-consent. In
Revenge of the Nerds, one of the main characters actually rapes a woman while disguised as her boyfriend. In
Sixteen Candles one girl is completely drunk and her boyfriend pretty much gives her to the nerd character. To be fair, both characters end up getting drunk, but after they have sex, it's said or implied that she doesn't even remember it, but that she has a feeling that the sex was good. That's pretty messed up when you think about it. And these same type of teen comedies were mainstream and popular, and what a surprise, that Brett Kavanaugh was accused of sexual assault during that time, and his comments and behavior from those years seem very similar to what was being promoted in mainstream entertainment at the time. Boys will be boys, right?
Also, I remember a rant Adam Corolla went at one of the roasts. Most of it was whiny reactionary anti-PC garbage, but he said one thing in the rant I think is worth repeating. "Comedy is OUR safe space!" Yeah, it kind of is, a place where you can say offensive things and anyone offended by them just doesn't have to listen.
I disagree with that. Would it be okay to have a comedy routine based around telling racist jokes, or having marginalized people be the butt of jokes? How about a white comedian saying the n-word and employing black stereotypes into his comedy? A heterosexual comedian relentlessly mocking people because they're gay or bi?
I do understand that "cancel culture" can go to far at times, and sometimes audiences are too sensitive. But why should comedy be the only place to say offensive things? Why can't you do it in television shows or movies? You don't have to watch those either. Why should comedians get a pass?
Bill Cosby was making jokes about putting "Spanish Fly" in women's drinks way back in the 70s. lol at the time, right? Then we find out 20-30 years later that he really was drugging women to rape them.
That's one of the reasons shows like Family Guy and South Park get away with things that other shows couldn't, their audience has long since self-selected and nobody still watching is offended by that kind of thing.
The problem is is that entertainment, regardless of whether it's comedy or not, can normalize questionable behavior and attitudes. Little kids grow up watching Family Guy and South Park and think it's totally fine to say "Jew" in a derogatory way.
There was no Family Guy or South Park when I was a kid, and I don't think making fun of Jews, or even the issue of people being Jewish as something to mock, was a part of mainstream entertainment back then. Slurs for Jews and the associated stereotypes were completely unknown to me. Yeah, I knew about the Holocaust and even read
Maus as a kid, but that was the extent of it. It wasn't until I was in my late-teens that I started to hear about Jewish stereotypes and slurs in a modern context, and even then I never used them.
Nowadays, there's small kids of friends and relatives who've I've heard make Jew jokes and, big surprise, they're fans of Southpark and Family Guy.