The clue for the First is that it cannot Touch anyone. So keep track of that.
I don't think it's fair to invoke the 'Bury your gays' thing every time a gay character dies. Lots of major and recurring characters die in Buffy. Tara wasn't killed because the character was gay, she was killed because it was the only thing that could possibly push Willow over the edge. Anything else, Tara would have easily calmed her down.
I don't think Tara fell victim to 'Bury your gays', she fell victim to 'Bury the love interests of your main characters'. Just like Jenny, and how in Lost just about every person who falls in love with Jack, Sawyer, Kate, Sayid, Locke or Hurley who is not another of the people on that list dies.
I'm a bit disappointed that Willow's girlfriend in the reboot comic is a new character and not Tara.
I'm just curious, has there been a show that has portrayed a gay relationship (Without the presumption or assumption of death, because I know in Orphan Black, Delphine and Cosima did make it to the end, but it was after the thought of Delphine being dead for an entire season) and it survived for the entire series? I look at all these series I know of where a gay character dies or is presumed or assumed dead and other than maybe Orange is the New Black (Which they are prisoners), I can't think of another series where a gay relationship was able to survive. Hell, even in Discovery they brought back Culber, but I still think it was a mistake to kill him off in the first place and it had a major negative impact on Stamets in season 2. I understand the idea of we shouldn't use the Bury Your Gays trope all the time and equality and all that, but I can't help but feel like killing off gay characters has become a cliche.
Cordy yes, Oz no.Perhaps they are saving that romance for later. Has Oz also become part of this storyline? How about Cordy?
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It’s like the writers wanted Willow to immediately be happy with someone again. I feel it was way too soon for Willow to be dating. Tara hadn’t even been dead for a year. The hurt was still raw, for Willow and the fandom.
Did you read the spoiler then?If that spoiler doesn't include the end of season 7, I'll read it. I probably won't read the comics, but I
can't risk clicking on something and being like, well there goes the last 9 episodes.
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Ok, that doesn't seem so bad. I can actually buy that happening.
Yes I did.That was part of why I was so mad they dumped Kennedy in the comics, I was hoping we'd get to see the relationship develop more.
Did you read the spoiler then?
WILLOW: Do you wanna make out with me?
OZ: What?
WILLOW: Forget it. I'm sorry. Well, do you?
OZ: Sometimes when I'm sitting in class... You know, I'm not thinking about class, 'cause that would never happen. I think about kissing you. And it's like everything stops. It's like, it's like freeze frame. Willow kissage. (pause) Oh, I'm not gonna kiss you.
WILLOW: What? But freeze frame!
OZ: Well, to the casual observer, it would appear that you're trying to make your friend Xander jealous or even the score or something. And that's on the empty side. See, in my fantasy when I'm kissing *you*, you're kissing *me*. It's okay. I can wait.
WILLOW: I just want you to know that what you saw this morning, it wasn't-
TARA: No, it's okay. I-I always knew that if he came back-
WILLOW: We were just talking. Nothing happened.
TARA: (hopeful smile) Oh. (Pause) Really?
WILLOW: But, you know, it was intense. Just talking. We have a lot to talk about. (Frowns) I kinda feel like my head's gonna explode.
TARA: Whatever, you know, happens ... I'll still be here. I'll still be your friend.
WILLOW: Of course we'll be friends! That's not even a question.
TARA: (upset) But I'm saying, I know what Oz means to you.
WILLOW: How can you, when I'm not even sure? I mean, I know what he meant to me. But he left, and... everything changed. I changed, and... then we--
TARA: What?
WILLOW: (teary) I don't know. I just - life was starting to get so good again, and -- You're a big part of that. (Crying) And here comes the thing I wanted most of all, and... I don't know what to do, I ... I wanna know, but I don't.
TARA: Do what makes you ... h-h-happy.
(Willow hugs her. Tara strokes Willow's hair.)
Yeah. As a member of the audience I never warmed up to Kennedy. She always came off as pushy and unlikeable to me. And her worst moment (IMHO) is upcoming. Someone upthread mentioned that people didn't like Kennedy because she wasn't Tara. The reason I didn't like Kennedy was because she was Kennedy.The biggest problem with Kennedy is we never got the moment where she won us over. Whedon spoke in a couple audio commentaries about giving the fans what they need, not what they want. In terms of new love interests, he pointed out the moments he built in where the audience would fall in love with them.
For Oz, it was the moment where he turned down Willow's kiss in the van when they were stealing the rocket launcher.
That's the moment fans collectively thought, "He's not Xander, but I like him."
For Tara, it was this moment from the episode when Oz returned.
Kennedy never got her moment.
Yeah. As a member of the audience I never warmed up to Kennedy. She always came off as pushy and unlikeable to me. And her worst moment (IMHO) is upcoming. Someone upthread mentioned that people didn't like Kennedy because she wasn't Tara. The reason I didn't like Kennedy was because she was Kennedy.
Reading that scene made me emotional again. That was Tara to a T. She was such a great and loyal friend. She knew how conflicted Willow was but still gave her a chance and breathing room. She allowed Willow to be Willow, no judgement. Compare that to Kennedy where the very first question she asked is when did Willow find out she was Gay. It just felt wrong.
Also I apologize for bringing up Orphan Black again, but there was a quote in there that has stuck with me in terms of the whole relationship thing, “My Sexuality isn’t the most important thing about me”. That’s what I liked about Tara. She was such a multi-faceted character that you didn’t think of it as a “gay relationship”. It was just a “relationship” and it was something special.
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