I am sorry to hear that! We're not exactly crowded in this thread. First clue: Rather unusual as a hair ornament...
yeah that occurred to me that I may have picked the wrong series too afterward. Maybe it's "The Aenar, Part III"
Maybe you could start a game. I am not sure I remember what episode I was trying to make people guess.
maybe "Oasis" ? the crew on that ship grow what they eat in the airponics bay. and that girl at least need some good time after a life with only photonically-based projections to talk to.