Are you thinking about the time aspect of relativity or something else?
Special relativity, yes. Time dilation, the inability to cross millions of light years without time slowing down so millions of years pass on your home world.
I don't know what really sparks life, you could have perfect conditions, but how does life really form out of nothing? I don't know, and I don't believe we know right now, and I'm very open to a possibility that we're totally unique.
We do have proof that under conditions of primordial life, the basic amino acids and phospholipids that make up carbon based life form. So we have very good reason to think any planet with those conditions will at least form bacterial life.