I'm curious and if I am out of line please tell me and I will remove the enquiry. Do you have like a personal stake in the characterisation of black characters? Like I'm female and I have a personal interest in how women are portrayed and I don't mean how someone else tells me I should react either. Apparently if you don't embrace the current crop of female leads you are not being feminist enough, which rather keeps the status quo of telling a woman (me) how to think anyway

. I would be interested in an example of a characterisation of a black character that is in a the right direction.
I could suggest two types of framing. One whereby the character reflects a positive model that we can relate to in our world and one whereby the character's race or gender is virtually irrelevant. Like for me take Beverly Crusher she is an example of a working mother, an ambitious individual, and an accomplished high ranking Starfleet officer. A positive role model but one that is a positive *female* role model. With Janeway yes of course she is female but we are not supposed to differentiate that positively or negatively because the role of captain is a leveller. Mostly in story it was never a big thing. There was a scene where she decided she didn't want to be addressed as Ma'am (and Tom still did throughout) but her gender was a non-issue. I do have one other type which is the hardest to navigate. It's the character that fits a stereotype but does more. Seven of Nine. Be easy to dismiss her as a cat suit but some of us saw more in her both as a character and actress.
I tend to think Claire of The Orville is supposed to be a bit like Beverly. Michael on Discovery is complicated. Not Vulcan by race yet by orientation, there's a sense of an adoption parallel we could make for today. I think she's messed up and not because of her gender or colour. I mean she's neither cool headed in a crisis enough to be Vulcan or human enough to recognise her weaknesses. And she didn't learn anything in my opinion. Her journey started with threatening mutiny and it ended on the same note.
I don’t think your question is out of line. I do have a personal stake in the depiction of black characters in the sense that I know from history how the negative depiction of fictional black characters has reinforced and/or encouraged mistreatment of black people in real life. I also think media depictions also reflect, to some extent, how the majority view black people as a whole, perhaps at times more welcoming than in the past, but still kept at a distance, so while there are more black characters on TV or in movies (which didn’t come without protest and advocacy, which continues to this day. It was only several years ago that the
#OscarsSoWhite hashtag forced Hollywood to at least acknowledge it’s continual diversity issues), but the next step of giving black characters their own interior lives, motivations, goals, or agency that can be different, or even at times opposite, to any show or movies' generally main white characters, is still a bridge too far all too often.
And there’s a personal stake in the sense that I’m a geek who loves space opera, some other sci-fi, horror, and genre works, comics, but often have had to deal with inaccurate and at times offensive and dismissive depictions of black people (i.e. me), and it makes it hard to embrace, or fully embrace, some of those stories that I otherwise enjoy. My enjoyment has to be qualified, sometimes negative things have to be overlooked or minimized. I might have to use the word ‘but’ often.
I don’t believe that race is irrelevant when it comes to characters, not in the US. Just like it isn’t in real life. It might not always be explicitly dealt with or even brought up, but it is there in the subtext.
To answer your request for a ‘right example’ I look to
DS9’s Benjamin Sisko. Sisko wasn’t perfect, he was no Gary Stu, he had complexities, and he was a well-rounded character. Sisko was three-dimensional. He had a family, he had friends, he had relationships, we saw him lose, we saw him win, he had hobbies, we saw a range of emotions with him. I’m not going to say I agreed with everything they did with Sisko (which goes for pretty much every other
Trek character too), but for the most part I don’t think any genre work has yet created a better black character since Sisko. Burnham has potential to also be a great character, for many of the reasons you pointed out. Burnham
is complicated. She’s torn between two cultures and doesn’t quite know how to integrate her emotions into her life (almost like how Data was in
Generations after receiving his emotion chip), and I think it will be interesting to see how that progresses. I hope the show does more to flesh her out, give her more of an interior life, as it goes on.
I don’t see the
Orville’s black characters or
Discovery’s or any other shows or movies’ black characters as just characters, because there is no such thing as
just characters. Hollywood is dominated by whites, particularly white males, and so their view of things is the lens through which these characters are often conceived and that we often see these characters. Sometimes it works well, like with
DS9 and Sisko and other times it doesn’t (Finn in the current
Star Wars sequels, but that is a whole other story). I would say it works right less times. Even when it comes to Burnham, Bryan Fuller was adamant that the lead be a black female. Without him being adamant about that, who’s to say who the lead of the show would’ve been. And one of the reasons Fuller wanted a black female lead because he saw how inspirational Nichelle Nichols had been to women like Mae Jemison and Whoopi Goldberg. Perhaps Michael Burnham could inspire a new generation. So, from the beginning, IMO, Burnham wasn't conceived solely as a character, but the inspirational aspect was there as well.
In addition to the conception part, once a black actor takes said role, it will mean something to the people who are watching it. And the actor who is in the role. And that might go beyond what the original intention or intent of the character was.