One thing that annoys me on DS9 is their "heroic" responses that are almost anti-human. For example, in "Rocks and Shoals" when the Vorta gives them the plan of attack of his men, they seem disgusted and reluctant to use it, but it seems obvious that:
1) if the situation were reversed, the Jems would have exterminated them without hesitation.
2) without the plan of attack most of them would have died in the attack.
3) Even with the plan of attack one of them died anyway!!!
4) as anybody knows, when you're at war, you try to win with as little casualties on your side as possible. You don't agonize over the "fairness" of the combat. In fact, I've done some time in the army of my country (I was drafted) and I learned that in combat you don't attack unless your superiority is established. The recommended ratio is more than 3 against 1. And if you have a clear terrain advantage then all the better. In fact, the only sane thing in the series has been said by Worf: "In war, nothing is more honorable than victory."