I hate this, I hate this, I hate this, I hate this. Right.
And sadly you were wrong, at least in my experience of living on both sides of the pond.
People in the US talk about Freedom of Speech a lot, it imbues a great deal of the self perception but in practice are actually far more censorious than we are in many ways. This is why they have such a litigation culture around libel, have such morally uptight views on pornography in the media and sexual expression (and yes, I know where you work), why many schools still refuse to teach evolution, why in some states there are still such tight laws around the specifics of private consensual sexual expression, why they talk about a free citizenry and the Second as a bulwark against the power of government but nonetheless view "anti American" as one of the vilest insults possible.
So there are dickweed hypocrites who don't actually understand the concept of Free Speech? Shocking. We better forget all about it then.
Just as a reminder, my point was not that no speech should be without consequences, but that penalizing speech can itself habe bad consequences. Alex Jones has just been thrown off of most major Social Media plattforms, and while I have no symathy with that asshole, I am deeply worried about what's next, as CNN has thrown Jimmy Dore and other left-wing commentators in the same category as Jones. My point was, and still is, that I think it's dangerous to leave it to, or even demand it from big corporations to decide what speech is allowed and which isn't.
Most countries have some variation on laws against incitement and is defined slightly differently in different locales and legal contexts. That they get circumvented is a valid discussion in it's own right but not sure what it has to do with the matter at hand?
No, the shitty thing would be to pretend the views of those victims shouldn't be considered and that being untouched as outsiders qualifies people to comment on the damage caused by using their plight as shock humour. The shitty thing would be to claim the views of a non victim on that impact are in any way comparable to or carry as much weight as those of the actual sufferers of the crimes being "joked" about.
Just to be clear, I work with many such people, both as victims and offenders. I was also raised in no small part within a care setting, read into that what you may.
I can assure you the psychological impact of casually reopening those wounds for people as a form of derogatory humour in the public domain can't be overstated and simply has no place in a civilised society, regardless of what Ricky Gervais of all people, ignorant fuckwit that he is, believes.
So, do you think that comedy about war and the military has a place in "civilized society"? Hot Shots treats Topper Harley's PTSD as a source for humor. Not to mention the kill count joke in Part Deux. There's real cannibalism, so is it okay to laugh about that episode of Monty Python's Flying Circus? Not to mention all the jokes about homosexuals on that show. What about religious feelings, is it okay to hurt them with humor, or do we ban Life of Brian? And then, shouldn't we also penalize caricatures of Mohammed?
See? That's the simplified and shortcut version of the slippery slope.
Besides, if I wasn't clear enough in my last post, don't presume.
By the way, "has no place in a civilized society" is simply ridiculous. There've been civilized societies on this Earth that had ritual human sacrifice have a central place in them. You're misusing the term "civilized society". What you really mean with that phrase is that
you don't like it.
And since you seem to have already made up your mind regardless of what I say, I'm gonna leave it here hoping I've made my arguments clear enough.