But what you seemed to be saying before was that as long as the prosecuting counsel says they can be impartial, that's good enough.
I certainly was not trying to say that. Also, I don't believe I said that, but again, perhaps a better writer could have been clearer.
What I tried to do is break it down logically into three sections.
1. Kirk's point of view (is it fair to him?)
2. The prosecution's point of view (will justice be done, and will Shaw act with integrity?)
3. Shaw's point of view (can she put her personal feeling aside to do her duty and can she live with the idea of prosecuting her friend?)
I think in the part of my post that you quoted I was talking about Shaw not recusing herself for personal reasons. In other words, she might say, "I just don't want to prosecute my friend". That issue is independent of what her professional responsibilities where she needs to be sure she can put her personal feelings aside and prosecute.
Anyway, I tried to show that from all three perspectives, it could be viewed as fair. No one has to agree with my arguments, but please don't flip them over into an extreme where I appear to have no regard at all for "conflicts of interest".
At any rate, removing the names and personalities, if Prosecutor A disclosed that they had been in a romantic relationship with Defendant B, I really have a hard time believing that all parties to the case would agree that was OK.
I also would have a hard time with that. Generally, that would not fly. But, I tried to point out various extenuating circumstances that might result in this unusual case.
1. Kirk demands an immediate trial
2. Shaw discloses her conflict of interest (it's known anyway)
3. Prosecution office is in a bind with only Shaw not busy.
4. Kirk is told, "we prefer to bring in an impartial prosecutor, but your trial will be delayed".
5. Kirk reiterates his insistence for an immediate trial.
6. Shaw states her willingness to prosecute a friend and act with integrity.
7. A backroom discussion occurs where integrity wins over conflict of interest
8. Kirk is asked if Shaw is acceptable and he says yes.
I've read many works of fiction (some of them considered great) where similar "hard to believe" issues come together and create a situation people enjoy reading about.
To give an example from the news last night. I saw that a person was drunk and drove down the highway the wrong way, placing many people in danger. Now, 1 million people drove home last night and drove home in the right direction, and there was one exceptional case of a person who drove home in the wrong direction. Now, out of those million and one cases, which situation do you want me to write a story about?