That isn't logic, that's pigeon holing. Someone with an alleged 200 plus IQ shouldn't need the difference explained. There is no inherent logic to the statement "I am male and therefore as a male I look to male role models"
Humans are tribal, but it is amongst the very worst qualities we possess and one of the few redeeming features of tribalism is how the parameters that define the tribe are flexible. Certainly a innate tendency towards tribalism is no defence for sexism.
False equivalence, identifying with someone and seeing them as a role model are distinct phenomena. As males we have no shortage of onscreen representation of characters we can identify with, on the contrary we already have way more than our fair share. There is no legitimate case for claiming we are underrepresented or lacking in characters to relate to.
Role models, on the other hand are something else entirely, they are about the values and principles by which that character behaves and how we choose to adopt or reject them. There is no a priori reason for such a character to bear any demographic resemblance to the viewer.
Personally I'd rather we looked for the best ones for humanity generally.
Boom. Yes. That’s who I’m thinking of.
I think the doctor should be reborn as a kid. That would be breaking new ground.
Kor
She told a story once about giving a blowjob to an American soldier. Before she realized she was gay. It was hilariously told.
Logic..
I am male, and therefore as a male, I look to male role models.That's part of human nature, which no matter how much social engineering and education otherwise and to the contrary, mother nature always wins out. Humans are tribal, hence why we have sports, so we can root for our teams. A round peg fits into a round slot, but doesn't fit well in a square one. Not that there's anything wrong with female role models, I just identify as a male, in this lifetime, in this shell. I may come back as a female next time, who knows. But I've embraced that role in this reality, and I'm gonna find the best ones to emulate my life around for personal success.
"Root for our teams."
Jesus, your misogyny could not be more transparent.
What I feel you're really missing about female role models, is you're not understanding how big a deal it is to get to be that role, which is why it's so important for women and girls.
You don't know what it's like being told "No, you can't do this", or "No, you can't be that". "No, you can't be the President, you can be the First Lady", "No, you can't be a doctor, be a nurse", "No, you can't be the hero, you're a damsel", and saying "No, you can't be the Doctor, you can be a Companion" feels oh so much the same. I don't feel you really realize what you're saying, or how much it hurts, and how what you're saying is so similar to what men have been saying and doing for so long.
These role models are so very important because they show girls "Yes, you can be the lead", you don't have to settle, or accept just what men tell you you should be grateful to get, roles they've chosen for you. And it's so important for boys to see, that yes women are worthy of respect and admiration, that yes you can look up to her, and want to be like her, and you don't have to idolize her any less just because she's not a man. I feel it would be such a wonderful role model for young boys to see a male companion aiding a woman Doctor, what a valuable lesson for him to see and learn?
I feel we should have several female Doctors in a row, so everyone can see she wasn't just a fluke or aberration or mistake, that she's just as normal as her predecessor male Doctors, and to balance out old disparity, then maybe start switching back and forth?
What I feel you're really missing about female role models, is you're not understanding how big a deal it is to get to be that role, which is why it's so important for women and girls.
You don't know what it's like being told "No, you can't do this", or "No, you can't be that". "No, you can't be the President, you can be the First Lady", "No, you can't be a doctor, be a nurse", "No, you can't be the hero, you're a damsel", and saying "No, you can't be the Doctor, you can be a Companion" feels oh so much the same. I don't feel you really realize what you're saying, or how much it hurts, and how what you're saying is so similar to what men have been saying and doing for so long.
These role models are so very important because they show girls "Yes, you can be the lead", you don't have to settle, or accept just what men tell you you should be grateful to get, roles they've chosen for you. And it's so important for boys to see, that yes women are worthy of respect and admiration, that yes you can look up to her, and want to be like her, and you don't have to idolize her any less just because she's not a man. I feel it would be such a wonderful role model for young boys to see a male companion aiding a woman Doctor, what a valuable lesson for him to see and learn?
I feel we should have several female Doctors in a row, so everyone can see she wasn't just a fluke or aberration or mistake, that she's just as normal as her predecessor male Doctors, and to balance out old disparity, then maybe start switching back and forth?
Moffat at times contradicts himself too. While saying to Bill that Time Lord's have no concept of Gender, all the while making Hartnell stand in be a sexist bigot in the Christmas Special. The Smack bottom comment was forced as well, seeing as only family may at times speak to each other in that way, given in context it was Susan he was arguing with, a child and grand daughter. Show me anywhere Hartnell's Doctor did the same outside of that one scene. In addition, it wasn't Hartnell asking for sandwiches in the 5 Doctors, that line was another stand in. I felt like the writing in the Christmas Special was presented to play to the #me too movement and sexism tropes paving the way for the first female doctor, already making a mockery of Hartnell's legacy. I'm sure he would be horrified today to see his legacy tarnished in such a way.I’m really only addressing your point about late era Moffat writing here but...
Look again at the subtexts. Moffat pushes ‘good dads’ and ‘dads protecting their children’ way up, in a way not seen since James Potter got wiped out on his doorstep trying to protect his wife and child. That’s a powerful and good thing to see on TV, and people criticised the hell out of at least one of those episodes, without getting how good. Rain resisting the cyberisation actually is. Fuck those criticisms. I’m a dad and I punched the air. Because yes, we would tear the cybercontroller a new one for our kids, and not stop till you could stamp Pepsi on it’s side and use it to serve cold beverages.
The emoticon aliens episode was borderline ‘right wing’ propaganda. ‘You want to come live here, in this utopia thes guys built...admittedly with some of your resources...well, you are gonna have to pay rent, and forgive the fact that a (software) generation ago, something these guys in front of you have no memory of and didn’t benefit from, killed your ancestors due to mistakes made by the system in charge, and be good neighbours’. I still don’t know how that (a) got past the fandom and (b) actually makes me feel. They even had the lead family be played by Continental Indian big name stars.
The Zygon Inversion also plays really really hard with politics, with integration being the thing that is most important to not killing each other.
The monks is totally about the danger of having your history rewritten under you, and the dangers of letting a powerful group take that control, with your consent, on the promise of some great fear. That’s a smack hitting the left and the right.
There’s highlighting of the idea of Victorian Britain as a Matriarchy and as a Colonising force that nonetheless integrated its subjects in...whatever that Gatiss episode on Mars was. Which also comments on all sorts things as it goes...bravery, the idea of being forced by a system to commit acts that you know are wrong.
Moffat generally plays it right down the centre, mocking overt statements as he goes, and I am surprised there hasn’t been more outcry at these and other things that swoop under the radar. I love that Rory punched Hitler and stuck him in a cupboard, it’s great...the only good thing in the episode really...when the Doctor smacks the racist in the one on the frozen Thames. His stuff around gender and regeneration has been a bit fuzzy (Missy going all ‘trap’ to borrow a term I only really know from video game controversies. Is gender change a choice in regeneration? Is it as rare as it seems to be, and possibly only a side effect of being in a second cycle of regenerations? That’s what seems to be suggested on screen by events, even if dialogue muddies the waters.)
Moffat is a small c conservative, possibly big C too...his writing on Coupling back in the day also presents him as someone the prefers the middle ground of politics. (Labour supporters as the evil empire, and conservatives as the rebel alliance...because you can’t still be the underdog when your party is in power.) Everytime he did something ‘virtue signalling’ he either did it organically, or made fun of it at the same time. He’s a difficult one to judge, and I think he gets attacked but the right and the left because they both think he’s on the other side. Poor sod.
Craig. Not rain. Effing spellcheck.
Boom. Yes. That’s who I’m thinking of.
That isn't logic, that's pigeon holing. Someone with an alleged 200 plus IQ shouldn't need the difference explained. There is no inherent logic to the statement "I am male and therefore as a male I look to male role models"
Humans are tribal, but it is amongst the very worst qualities we possess and one of the few redeeming features of tribalism is how the parameters that define the tribe are flexible. Certainly a innate tendency towards tribalism is no defence for sexism.
False equivalence, identifying with someone and seeing them as a role model are distinct phenomena. As males we have no shortage of onscreen representation of characters we can identify with, on the contrary we already have way more than our fair share. There is no legitimate case for claiming we are underrepresented or lacking in characters to relate to.
Role models, on the other hand are something else entirely, they are about the values and principles by which that character behaves and how we choose to adopt or reject them. There is no a priori reason for such a character to bear any demographic resemblance to the viewer.
Personally I'd rather we looked for the best ones for humanity generally.
The role model/same gender argument cannot be wrong when used by one side of an argument, and right when used by the other.
‘Finally girls have a Doctor of their own’ ‘Finally they can look up to the Doctor
Aside from that, I have already talked, at length, about how small children do tend towards role models that match their gender
The Smack bottom comment was forced as well, seeing as only family may at times speak to each other in that way,
But you see, despite all you're saying, I'm still so very hurt to see people who are so upset a woman is the new Doctor. I feel this tells me it's not so rosy as you're saying? You don't have to hear people actually saying those things, I mean it's what actions say, how we're shown and instructed from youth.
You say you have no hidden misogyny, but that's not what I'm hearing when you say you don't want a woman Doctor. I feel you're saying to me "A Companion is good enough for you". Why? If a Companion is so wonderful, then why not a male Companion and a female Doctor? If what you say is true, shouldn't it not matter to you? I mean, you can say as much as you want, but at the end all I'm really hearing is "I only want male Doctors because he's a male institution". I don't feel we'll have equality until every single last male institution is torn down and rebuilt.
When you say "A woman shouldn't be this, men only" you're being sexist, however you rationalize it.
I haven't, we aren't collectively coming as a feminist bloc so to speak. I'd absolutely hold the differentiation between representative and role model to be ubiquitous.
That being said, as @Marynator points out, we really have to view this in the context of the genuine existing imbalance and how important this is to females. We males have such a huge over representation in terms of show leads it seemingly threatens some men to see an outlier, no matter how little difference it makes to the overall statistical trend. This really matters to female viewers and frankly we can afford to lose one male lead.
Do tell that to my four year old son who watches My Little Pony or my ten year old daughter who is Harry Potter obsessed.
What?
Each of your suppositions can be discredited by concrete scientific studies and data. Unfortunately I am currently on lunch and my phone, otherwise I would provide links to the studies that show real scientific research that supports my position.
Please don't use my intelligence as a slight against me, that's a bit too much for polite conversation. You don't have to explain anything to me, while there's concrete data that you may want to read to get the truth of what I am espousing.
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