Would you date an Adult Film Star?

[PureCrimson]

I assume this asking about being a performer. In that case, I would not. This would not only be intimidating but definitely not the type of girl I naturally gravitate towards anyway. I probably wouldn't have much attraction.

I don't think being a porn star will automatically make someone drop dead physically attractive either. Not that that should matter most anyway. It would be just a turn off for me, regardless of how she looked since I'm not into that.

 

[Lord Garth]

Nope.

 

[TrickyDickie]

To those who say no....what about a former porn star?

Circa 17 years ago or so, 'Tawnee Stone' burst upon the scene and has been the 'internet sensation' ever since....but the word is that she has actually been retired for quite some time and has been living a quiet life working for an accounting firm.

 

[Refuge]

The whole thought leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

 

[Spot261]

I would only date the caterer, the guy behind the food table. He could tell me some stories..

And bring you nibbles?

 

[TEACAKE'S PLEATHER DOME]

Yeah leftover sandwiches from the porn set and used strawberries and whip cream. Also pizza that had starred in a dozen pizza delivery scenes.

This idea is sounding less appealing.

 

[Gary7]

Having sex with someone as a profession... isn't all that far off from prostitution. A woman in my life where we have an exclusive relationship (no dating anyone else), we would have to be monogamous. Her having intercourse with another man would be unsettling and reprehensible to me. I couldn't tolerate it. I don't understand how anyone could...

 

[auntiehill]

Me? Nope.

 

[Refuge]

I can't help but refer to adult movies I've seen and the men in them are so robotic and this whole needing to ejaculate all over the woman like to prove that he did it would put me right off dating him. One trick pony. Seriously someone earlier in the thread made comment about other professions that would put you off dating someone and there ARE others too.

 

[Australis]

She'd have to be special as a person, so the sex isn't a huge part.

That then leads to questions about performance anxiety - how will I compare to the gentlemen with the massive genitalia she schtupps for work?

 

[Amaris]

She'd have to be special as a person, so the sex isn't a huge part.

That then leads to questions about performance anxiety - how will I compare to the gentlemen with the massive genitalia she schtupps for work?

That depends: are you trying to be her co-worker, or her partner? If her co-worker, you might be up against fierce competition. If her partner, then for what reason would she make the comparison in the first place?

 

[Discofan]

It doesn't bother me as long as she didn't fish off the company pier to get the job, IE she didn't give head to get ahead...

 

[Australis]

That depends: are you trying to be her co-worker, or her partner? If her co-worker, you might be up against fierce competition. If her partner, then for what reason would she make the comparison in the first place?

That's why I said special as a person. You'd want to be with the person, share things, go places together, enjoy the same things. It becomes not about the sexual component alone.

 

[UncleRogi]

I can't help but refer to adult movies I've seen and the men in them are so robotic and this whole needing to ejaculate all over the woman like to prove that he did it would put me right off dating him. One trick pony. Seriously someone earlier in the thread made comment about other professions that would put you off dating someone and there ARE others too.

They call it "the money shot" for some reason, and I don't get it either. It's part of the job. Not necessarily
something that one would personally enjoy. I wouldn't do that kind of thing unless she asked, and
maybe not even then. I think it's degrading to everyone involved.

 

[Amaris]

That's why I said special as a person. You'd want to be with the person, share things, go places together, enjoy the same things. It becomes not about the sexual component alone.

Then there's nothing to worry about.

 

[Pondwater]

If we shared interests and enjoyed each other’s company, Yes!

 

[TrickyDickie]

They call it "the money shot" for some reason, and I don't get it either.

It seems to be a domination thing. Soil something nice just because you can. It's not shit or piss but a lot of the mentality seems like it's the next best thing. Thus a lot of those who prefer to see women swallow rather than spit.

I recall a thread here on the BBS from circa 2003 or 2004. One member said "There's nothing like seeing cum on a pretty face!" Another member described being in the back row of a darkened classroom in school while a movie was being shown, masturbating, and squirting into the hair of the girl sitting in front of him.

Degrading? Yeah, just a bit.

 

[The Realist]

I think the real question is, would an adult film star date me?

 

[Discofan]

I think the real question is, would an adult film star date me?

You've got a point there...

 

[Tora Ziyal]

No thanks.

go with her for walks on the beach

And you would? I distinctly remember you're telling me how you don't like the beach.