No, I thought GEN Kirk was treated way to much as a superhero.
Can I ask how losing your family member to the Dark Side of the Force, after fighting against it for years, would affect someone?
I honestly can't answer your question. I'd like to believe I'd choose the honorable and dutiful path but I've never been faced with that dilemma.
I can point to a historical figure, Bass Reeves who many believe was the historic template for the Lone Ranger. Reeves, a US Marshall who pursued thousands of criminals throughout his career, was forced to arrest his own son for murder. His honor and commitment never faltered, even when it came to his own family.