This is so fascinating.. I'm getting a real catch up on their appearances. Memory Alpha.. I will not plagiarise.. Memory Alpha..
You've shown nothing from TOS that shows Vulcan to be an noble culture. And you still haven't answered the question about how noble a society that limits the freedoms of its females can be. You never answered if you would feel like it was a noble culture if you were a female living in it.
I remember the dignity of other Vulcans when they were portrayed.
Which one's? The one who openly denigrated humans? The one who was cheating on Spock? The one who was in an open relationship with a betrothed woman? The one who wouldn't speak to his son for eighteen years over a career choice? Or the children who openly mocked and abused the one who was different? Those are the only one's we see in TOS/TAS. You were the one who said that the people working on the other show should respect the original creators work.
The Vulcans were every bit as violent and emotional as their human counterparts. That is from the culture we see in TOS, as envisioned by the writers/creators of that show.