Kes just needed the right Man -- and Neelix wasn't it. Had she an acceptable lifespan and a cool boyfriend, she would've been set as The Toast of STAR TREK: Voyager. "Oh! But her boyfriend's a burger-flipping Talaxian. We'll just keep working that, until the audience comes around to it, finally." I really hate that, when they're deliberately obtuse about an idea they had that does NOT work ... sometimes, they just can't admit to being wrong. With some very modest reshuffling of Kes' Life aboard Voyager, there would've been no stopping her.