I see what you're saying, but to be frank, I get incredible personal comfort from reconciling them.![]()
Great! That's the beauty of this move.
You can decide retroactively that Sulu was gay all along... or not.
Outside of this message board, I think you would probably see most people's eyes glaze over if you even tried to explain to them that there is more than one Sulu. So I really think this conversation is just for us. And most likely, for future generations, Sulu will be gay.
I always disliked the biology versus choice debate, as I mentioned much higher up in this thread, because it should not matter whether it is hard-wired or a choice. As long as you are making a choice that doesn't harm anyone else, and being gay does not harm anyone else (much as some would like to think that it does), it should make no difference. If I decide to make out with a dude tomorrow just for the hell of it, in my case, that would most likely be a choice. But so what? It's no one else's business.
My position is, whatever makes someone gay, it makes no difference. Just be gay.