Much apologizings, I never intended to be patronizing.
Just speaking for myself, but I don't think you were being patronizing. When I was a believer, and I would tell people such things, it was always sincere. I believed in a good, loving, kind God who wanted everyone to find that spark of divinity in themselves and fan that into a flame that would give them light in the darkness. That is what I believed.
I still find the concept of God fascinating, even in light of my disbelief. I've been asked often (mostly by Christians) why I still delve into such things if I don't believe a god exists. Well, because the vast majority of people on this planet
do believe in a god or gods, and some of them get very angry at my mere existence, while others wish to punish me for not believing in their god. Just in the United States alone, there are millions of people in the upper echelons of power who believe in a god, and not only in a god, but a god they believe is THE God, and that any straying from that One True God is call for punishment. They want to punish me for not believing. They want to harm me for being pansexual, or for supporting transgender rights, or for breaking down gender stereotypes, because it flies in the face of what they can accept and that makes me a danger to them. They wish to silence me and either pretend I don't exist, or force me to believe in a god I cannot believe in.
What makes it all the worse is that I am an apostate. I did believe in God, a clergyman dedicated to the service of God, and not just any God but the "One True God," and that God was all powerful, all knowing, and omnipresent. Everything you were was a sign of His existence, and every space where you were not, He Was. You don't just walk away from that without pissing some people off, or at least pissing people off who think their God is pissed off by such a flagrant disregard for the Creator of All Things.
I harm no one, I take nothing from them, but I must not be left alone, lest my non-belief poison the well. My good deeds? They don't matter. My kindness, compassion, and desire to help uplift all of humanity? Burned like piles of refuse before an angry God who just so happens to look like an angry mob. So I have to be wise, and I have to be knowledgeable, because I get tested on so many levels by people who simply cannot let me be, because for them I should not be.
That is not to say all religious people are like this, because clearly they are not, but enough of them are that I have to keep my mind on religion, and religious matters, lest I find myself without rights.