If you accept the idea that the A-Team was shooting the hell out of people without actually killing anyone, then I have to wonder exactly what scenes you're counting in MCU movies that show them 'routinely' killing the bad guys.
There are plenty of them in IM3, and I'm not the only one to notice. And I believe you've already acknowledged the terrorist-fighting scene in the first Iron Man. Plus I gave you the link to that "kill count" thread. This is a fact of the MCU that a number of people before me have criticized, so I'm bewildered we're even having this conversation.
And The A-Team is not a valid comparison, precisely because it was made in another age, when TV shows were under greater censorship and greater pressure to avoid the use of deadly force by their heroes, whether it made sense or not. That doesn't apply to modern-day movies -- as evidenced by the fact that the movie-remake A-Team did explicitly kill people.
As for your desire to see more old school heroics, I think that's great. I'd love to see more of it, too. But I highly disagree with your desire that that should be the only standard for superheroes.
I never said the only standard. I just wish it weren't so rarely the standard for movie heroes. As I've said, the problem with movies as a whole is that they tend to default to killing. Even movies whose heroes nominally have a code against killing still end up with hypocritical lines like "I don't have to save you" or "You are no ape" and break their codes at the end, because movies are addicted to "kill the bad guy" endings. The Dark Knight is one of the only superhero feature films to break that pattern, and that's only because they didn't want to kill off the Joker (they did have Two-Face die, with Batman playing a hand in his fate). I don't want anything to be the only standard, but killing pretty much is. And I'm sick of it. Okay? I resent your attempt to twist my words into a straw man that has nothing to do with what I'm actually saying.
I can see that theoretically as an inconsistency, but again, definitely not the fault of the movies. In so far as it is inconsistent, it's built into the character from the start. A reformed weapons manufacturer of the kind you're thinking shouldn't be building a missile equipped battlesuit in the first place.
Exactly my point. It shouldn't have missiles. In the comics, Iron Man's weapons are mostly nonlethal -- repulsor beams and such. The inconsistency was built in from the start of the movies, and that is exactly the problem, the fact that movies insist on forcing comic-book characters who traditionally don't kill into the cliched mode of movie heroes who do kill.
Personally, I don't see how any kind of standard moral code could ever have too much effect on the Hulk part of the character (with the exception of those periods of time in which Banner actually could maintain his own personality and intelligence through the transformation - something I do hope we see someday in the MCU). He's fairly consistently portrayed as an almost unthinking, reactive force. He hurts people who hurt him.
That's not really true. I recently read a collection of the earliest Hulk comics, and though there were two initial issues that attempted to portray the Hulk as a Mr. Hyde-type villain, it quickly settled into a mode where Bruce retained his personality and intelligence in Hulk form, aside from being more aggressive and ill-tempered. Later, when he was trapped in Hulk form for long enough, his intellect faded to the "Hulk smash" level, but Banner's mind, morals, and affinities were still at the root of the Hulk's, despite the Hulk's tendency to forget that he and Banner were the same person. This actually happened twice, with Banner trapped in a fully intelligent Hulk form and slowly getting dumber, until they changed it so that the dimwitted persona was the default for the Hulk. But the idea was rooted from very early on that the Hulk does have Banner's personality, just not his mental clarity. The Hulk doesn't just lash out at what Banner fears, he protects what Banner cares about. The Bixby TV series portrayed it the same way, and the pilot stressed explicitly that the Hulk could never be a killer because Banner was not a killer. (Again, this was '70s TV, so nonlethality was required.)
And maybe it's changed in recent years, but for a long time, the comics were the same way, keeping the Hulk's rampages nonlethal no matter how little sense it made. I once heard that some Hulk story in the comics offered a convoluted excuse about how Banner's genius was subconsciously calculating exactly how the Hulk could apply force to smash things without killing anyone, which was silly, but at least they tried.