TOS Spock never gave most of the women the time or day. If we go by the parallel reality universe spock and chapel made a lot of sense because in one reality like TOS, it was unrequited love then in another reality the love will not be unrequited. According to the many worlds theories in quantum physics and quantum mechanics spock/chapel would have made more sense in the new series it is why it was Orci’s first choice but it did not happen.

well,
I didn't know that the
'many worlds theories in quantum physics and quantum mechanics' say that it makes more sense for the alternate version of Spock to be in love with someone he explicitly said he didn't love in an other reality, than the alternate version of Spock being in love with someone he had showed attraction for in said other reality. (someone please tell Leila Kalomi!)
Thank you for enlightening me about the inner workings of quantum physics

I'd ask you to elaborate, but I fear my IQ isn't high enough to grasp this complex concept anyway.
I'm also sure Orci would appreciate your interesting interpretation of what he actually said, too.
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Edited to add (because why not? it's funny, and because I bet 90% of the people reading our convo don't even know that we are talking about and it's not nice ^ )
this is the interview Dales is referring to (sort of...) (I honestly have no idea why she even mentioned any of this, to begin with ^ but oh well.. Let's derailllll maybe someone here can turn that into something in topic with 'tos homages')
From Chapel memory alpha:
In an interview with screenwriters Alex Kurtzman and Roberto Orci, Kurtzman explained, "In our original, original draft we wrote some scenes with Nurse Chapel but ended up losing them. Even in our first draft it's not included. We originally had a flirtation between her and Spock: Nurse Chapel was obviously really obsessed with him and he was not giving her the time of day, which we thought was funny, but then we came onto the Spock/Uhura connection [established in the film] and that's why Nurse Chapel ended up by the wayside." (Star Trek Magazine issue 146, p. 38)
And this is what they said about the s/u connection they came onto for the actual movie:
Orci and Kurtzman explain that Spock and Uhura's relationship "it brings out his human side, it fits Spock’s arc for the surprise of the fact that he does share humanity and in the revelation that his father did love his mother, and therefore Spock himself is then capable of that and you see that with him and Uhura. It fits him."
(They also mentioned the flirtation they noticed in tos as inspiration (in terms of 'why Uhura'.) They also talked about contradicting the trope that Kirk would 'get the girl' because Uhura is, instead, more interested about the nerdy guy who fits her personality more.)
I guess if one is being very creative they can totally believe that their original idea for Spock/Chapel was the same exact relationship they were later inspired to make with him and Uhura, and thus Uhura 'replaced' Chapel as the girl Spock was in love with but, frankly, from the writers' quotes it's obvious we are comparing oranges and bananas here and they didn't simply replace one girl with the other: they literally replaced one kind of dynamic (unrequited love with character A) with another (actual relationship with character B) (And thank God they did. I'll watch tos if I want to see the unrequited love/pining girl dynamic) .
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If you reread my post I only brought up the rumour and romance when you mentioned Uhura’s role was downplayed
you're the one who believes that breaking up S/U is the be all and end all of 'downgrading' Uhura's role.
I was sharing concern over the fact that they seem to have replaced the Kirk/Uhura/Spock trio with a Kirk/Scotty/Spock/McCoy thing.. or at the very least tone Uhura's role down by keeping her away from the main characters as a sly way to not deal with her existing dynamics with them (so that Pegg can have dynamics with the main characters and the secondary male characters only) and get back to how things were in tos.
Of course, when you bought up the S/U romance and dismissed it as unimportant for the characters (and in terms of social commentary) I pointed up that while Uhura doesn't need to be with Spock to have a good role in the story or be a good female character, it's also true that her relationship with him
already exists and is important for the characters and it would be problematic for me if out of all the dynamics with the lead male characters in these movies, her relationships are the only ones getting toned down or swept under the rug to focus on the dudebro dynamics
only. It would also make trek go backwards because it's getting back to the 60s where the male leads were only allowed to have meaningful relationships with other male characters. This specific point isn't even just about Uhura (though, unlike your denial and your fanfictions about her supposedly having a romance in tos already - that she actually never had - her being a woc allowed to be the love interest of an iconic character like Spock has a significance for many), but also Spock being once again reduced to just the nerdy alien friend who can have feelings and express them only for his male friends.
now I have a
feeling you will say that neither Scotty or McCoy will kiss Kirk or Spock.
and I said there is no proof of such things because the only rumour we heard about Uhura is that she and spock may no longer be an item and I went on to say that just because a couple breaks up does not mean their role is been downplayed and I still stand by that. You don’t have to believe the break up rumour which is why it is a RUMOUR.I have to wait and see the film
again, you're the only one who cares about said 'rumor'. It was never part of my point. Like, not at all. Not even one bit.
For me it isn't even a 'rumor' but just the speculation of someone who isn't exactly the most 'neutral' about the reboot (and thus the S/U relationship too), anyway. I read what Justin Lin
actually said and even *I* thought that Faraci was way off base with his speculation because the director said nothing of the stuff he's claiming he said.
and If it still isn't clear to you I'll try to make it so: even if someone in the team said that the movie ends with S/U married on new vulcan or what have you, my opinions and concerns wouldn't change.
Frankly, you're just using my comment as a pretext to make blog posts about other things. It's ok but next time don't quote me and make it seems you're replying to
me when really you aren't doing that and, if anything, you're simply derailing my point for your own agenda.
I won’t get into Scotty/uhura again but what we know is that they were an official couple. How fans views their romance does not negate or force people to pretend that the romance never happened because it did. giving your personal views on how you view the scotty/uhura relationship sadly does not negate the fact that they were not a couple because they were.

How can they be an official couple if canon doesn't make them one? Nichelle Nichols herself said they were just friends when she got asked about that. Whatever the fans want to interpret some of their interactions as romantic that's the
speculation here, not those who just don't read into it more than what is actually showed in the movies and developed by the writers (and thus written in stuff like the script and novelization)
if you're trying to invalidate the point that Uhura was denied a romance in old trek because of racism (along other reasons) you're failing if everything you get is that Scotty/Uhura thing.
Uhura goes down to help Spock because Spock is her boyfriend. PERIOD she would not have done so with anyone else.
except, she went there only when they found a way to save Kirk and thus they needed someone to stop Spock from killing Khan (and it's legit to believe he'd probably listen to her). Her also saving Spock was a sideffect but not her main motivation for getting there (that was saving Kirk), for what she knew Spock was killing Khan (not the other way around) and he didn't need her help.
Mccoy helps saves Kirk’s life because he is the best doctor on the Enterprise not just because Kirk is his friend and he would have saved the life of anyone who was not Kirk as well. In the climax of STID we see Mccoy doing his official job as a doctor which is helping save kirk's life because he was the best equipped person to do so and yes Kirk was his best friend too.
Uhura was not the best equipped person to go down to help Spock. Sulu probably was because he was the best physical fighter on the enterprise and spock and khan were fist fighting but Uhura went only because spock is her boyfriend.
lol ok.