All right, I'll be satisfied that this is your version of a straight answer. Either that string of tired stereotypes is your version of the ideal scenario or your hard earned experience of reality. If the latter, you must have a rather small circle of acquaintances. Regardless, you're either a profound misogynist or a very sensitive and ardent supporter of breaking all of the false and cruel shibboleths propounded against women over the ages. I guess I'll ponder which is likely the correct one in the small hours sometime. Either way you still managed, in your inimitable style, of never stating what an example of enlightened writing on this matter would look like, something that you opined on to start this little farago of clarity.
Kudos to you by the way for adding some new entries to my vocabulary, though I sort of suspect that your syntax was off a bit.
Moving on.......
Aww bless, did you just accuse me of being a mysogynist? Your technique for repeating what someone accuses you of but with a silly voice as a means of rebuttal is obviously your preferred method.
Let me try one more time for that gentle mind.
Portraying men as fun, interesting guys and women as dull, fun-stealing people who spend their days wanting to be in serious, committed, responsible relationships... is a mysogynistic stereotype. Perhaps read up on the subject if it doesn't make sense to you (inexplicably so).
B'Elanna was vivacious, confident, sexy and witty... then they put her in a relationship with Tom and slowly but surely, had her criticise him for goofing off, not being responsible, not focusing on grown-up endeavours. She developed the personality of a nagging fishwife who no longer cared for wit, excitement or individuality. Eventually, it seems like her only interests we're relationship related.
This is bad writing... Blatantly coming from male writers... who bought into that stereotype.
An example of enlightened writing would be... not to do this (was that not painfully obvious?).