I haven't felt that in NuTrek at all. The series always gave hope NuTrek has given us a genocidal maniac that wasnt stopped and destroyed Vulcan...
Can't win them all.
...a insane Starfleet captain that wasn't stopped before he killed scores of people...
Admiral Marcus? The commander of Starfleet. Yeah, I think he may be a bit tougher to stop than a garden variety officer. Having more means at your disposal will do that.
...a woefully immature Kirk and a Spock that doesn't seem to be the strong first officer that Prime Spock was.
Since the film takes place seven years prior to TOS, I would imagine the characters would be different to an extent. I'm not the same person I was seven years ago.