There are a universe of small towns around here, some so tiny that if you blink while driving through you'll not only miss the one stoplight but travel through the next town as well. They're often interesting and fun to visit or drive through, but as a guy who prefers having lots of stores and restaurants to choose from, a good local entertainment scene and a well-run, competent public transit system I'm glad I'm in a city of this size.
We're just big enough to give our residents lots of options but small enough to have a "little city with an attitude" atmosphere. We're the right size for you to get most places you need to go in a short amount of time but not so big that you feel swallowed up by the area.