I have been a fan of TOS since about 8 years old and knew more about it due to reading Trimble's concordance that watching full episodes. The ones I did watch were memorable and enjoyable, with Balance of Terror being my favorite one.
The new movies capture the excitement and adventure that TOS had. And, I know that I am unique in this, I think they captured the characters as well, in a different way.
Does Abrams' films meet my TOS standards? Yes, yes they do. I would like to think my standards are pretty simple, and based upon GR's original concept for TOS of action-adventure with social commentary. For me, the new films have plenty of both.
YMMV