I still can't believe that the way things happened in XI was the same way they did in the prime reality. For one thing, we know from dialogue in TOS "A Private Little War" that Kirk Prime was already a lieutenant and in active service in 2255, the same year that NuKirk enrolled at the Academy in the JJ-verse, so Kirk Prime would have to have beaten the Kobayashi Maru some time earlier. I don't believe that Spock Prime could have been programming the Kobayashi Maru in the 2250s in the prime timeline; he enrolled at the Academy in 2249, and assuming he graduated around 2253, I imagine he would've been sent straight to Pike's Enterprise where we find him a year later in TOS "The Cage." I'm not saying that Kirk Prime and Spock Prime never occasionally met while at the Academy, I just don't reckon their first encounter was the same as depicted in XI. The only way it could have happened is if Spock Prime was overseeing the simulation while still a cadet, which I find unlikely. And if you listen to the dialogue in ST II, the way Spock describes Kirk's cheating incident sounds as though he wasn't directly involved at the time, it was just something he heard about.
Someone should do a comparative timeline chart for Kirk and Spock Prime and NuKirk and NuSpock.