Why would you think that, when the majority of the "we" you're addressing are telling you that, yes, of course the Federation needs, desires, and in fact has a military in Starfleet?
The Federation has a fleet of Starships. That's the only fact we all agree on.
Well, first off, thanks for changing the thing that we agree on to an actual undeniable fact. I think this is real progress you're making.
However, there are a few more things that I believe we can all agree on:
- this fleet of starships are equipped with phasers and photon and/or quantum torpedoes, which are deadly offensive weapons.
- this fleet is manned by people who wear uniforms, follow a rank structure and a chain of command nearly identical to that of the U.S. Navy, which is a military organization.
- this fleet was responsible for defending the Federation against numerous foreign aggressors in numerous conflicts, from the Suliban to the Dominion
- there were other non-Starfleet (i.e. civilian) ships which undertook activities such as exploration, supply runs, personnel transport, etc., while Starfleet was the
only organization charged with defensive responsibilities.
We do agree on these points, don't we? The only disagreement, as I see it, is that despite all these duck-like characteristics, your personal opposition to ducks prevents you from drawing the only legitimate conclusion from the preponderance of evidence.
I said early on that I would concede
paramilitary. Police are paramilitary. So are the Boy Scouts. So is the Salvation Army.
When I look at the ink blot I see a culture that built a slew of powerful vessels with many capabilities but whose PURPOSE was never meant to be martial. They explore, they occasionally function as peace keepers but, again, you don't include permanently resident families on or in military vessels. What is the military function of those kids? Human shields? In a military setting the families and children would be strictly forbidden. That they are not settles this debate. Presence of children = non-military vessel. (unless you're pretty ruthless and cold blooded military which Starfleet, again, is not)
You guys don't take the members of Starfleet at their word (which I find odd), claiming they are either naive or lying, but, for me, it's simple. They are what they say they are. It's not just Picard who has made that statement. Multiple officers in multiple series have done the same. Even Quark does, though it's through the lens of Ferengi disgust.
Using a military management style doesn't make you the military nor does the possession of deadly weapons. Soldiers don't have the option of shooting their opponents with tranquilizer darts or stun gas instead of bullets. Generals don't claim to be explorers when engaged in a campaign (or ever really).
"Yes, we're just
exploring Iraq. These tanks and missiles and guys with assault weapons are just the sherpas."
During WW2 everyone in the US was a soldier to some degree, either active duty in the shooting war or as support (back home). The same is true of the Federation during the Dom War and, I presume, the shooting part of the Romulan conflict.
The Federation was unprepared for the Borg and, after BARELY escaping destruction at their hands, what did Starfleet do? Did they commit to a martial posture? No. They rebooted back to their default behavior, exploration with occasional peacekeeping, and did not construct even a single vessel or service division meant strictly for martial activity. You'd think a society that had been naive about the need for an army before that conflict would have their eyes wide open after. And yet the Dominion, within fairly short order, proved they had not done any of that.
Contrast that with our behavior after WW2. Do we have fewer deadly weapons now or more? Do we have more powerful deadly weapons now or less powerful?
The Federation's best equipped, most powerful vessels are their exploration ships. yes they have a stunning array of deadly weapons. If I'm heading into kodiak country to get pictures of some rare fungus or thrush, you can bet I'm taking a gun and a knife. The same is true of the Starfleet ships between TOS and DS9's war.
So it makes sense that, when under threat, those ships would be
retasked for battle. But, until the Dominion showed up, they weren't designing ships for war or training the mass of their people for it either.
They don't see themselves that way.