Best selling, but not a industry standard mechanic or game play. You're still talking about a small number of games.
If you mean,
those specific mechanics, then sure. But it seems rather self-evident that the issue is about
any instances of sexism and misogyny in video games as a whole. And if THAT'S the metric, it really isn't a "small number" of games. Certainly not all, and maybe not even the majority, but not "small." Besides which, I don't see how the the extent to which specific mechanics are widespread is somehow more important to this issue than the question of, how many top-selling games have some sexist aspects to them.
Painting "all games" or "all gamers" as prone to these behaviors was never the point. Don't her videos go out of their way to point this out? Others in this thread have made this point, but mounting a defense of "all" anything as part of this debate is a huge strawman.
And that's not to mention the sexism and misogyny that goes on behind the scenes in the industry.
Re: porn, several good points have already been made, but in addition: you brought it up as some kind of "well, if games are bad because of this issue, what about porn? Isn't it bad too?" Well, yeah. Like games, it's not all porn and certainly not all consumers of porn, but who in the hell among feminists or anti-GGers, etc. ever made the claim that there are NO PROBLEMS WHATSOEVER EVER with sexism or misogyny in porn?
Of course not all gamers are violent or misogynistic. Neither are all porn consumers, or porn producers. If there is SOME sexism and misogyny present in either industry, shouldn't we stamp it out? If even a small number of consumers are influenced by the product the industry puts out, and actually engage in more misogynistic behavior because of it, isn't that a problem? This is the
other reason why "not all (whatevers)" is such a huge straw man. Not only did no one ever say it WAS all, but acknowledging that it's "only some" doesn't change the fact that it's still a problem and one we should be working to solve.
It sounds to me like you just don't like Sarkeesian. You don't like how she presents herself and her opinions. Much of what you've said about why is provably nonsensical (i.e., you've tarred her videos as "blaming all games for being bad" when they pointedly haven't, accused her of claiming that everyone who disagrees with her is "part of gamergate" even though much of her material predates gamergate, etc), but the bottom line is, you don't like how she conducts herself. Fine. You are actually allowed to hold that opinion. But it doesn't change the fact that she's
right about the base concept, which is: "there are problems in gaming with sexism and misogyny. We need to fix these problems." It's also worth pointing out that you seem to agree with the base concept, so it's hard to really get behind you when you complain about Sarkeesian being like Fox News. Frankly, I don't think I've EVER heard anyone say "Fox News is horrible, what they are saying is correct but the WAY they say it is so bad." Fox News distorts the truth and outright makes shit up as a matter of course. As I said, you are free to not like Anita Sarkeesian as a media critic, but she's not distorting the truth and outright making things up.