I am glad to see someone else feels the same way I do about Spock. Quinto is a good actor, but I think the character was written with too much outward emotion. The Uhura relationship just feels wrong. The more times I watch the movie the more I notice it. I could not see Nimoy groping Uhura- or anyone- on the transporter pad. Nor could I see him abandoning command of the Enterprise to go save Mommy... not without either giving someone else a plan to follow in his absence or sending someone else while he oversees the mission.It just goes to show you how subjective this all is. We're both long time TOS fans (although you have a few years on meI thought Quinto was just about perfect.) and we saw completely different things. I've only seen the new film twice, and the first time Quinto's portrayal rubbed me the wrong way. The second time around I was trying to picture Nimoy's version of the character behaving in the same way or saying the same things as the Quinto version, and it was just impossible for me. The funny thing is that I'm not particulary a Spock fan, I've always been partial to the Kirk character, so the visceral reaction I had took me by surprise. I thought Chris Pine actually did a pretty good job capturing the spirit, if not the specifics, of the Kirk character.
Yeah, that didn't bother me either. Not even a little.I didn't miss the "social relevance," which Trek has sucked at ever since the people making it decided that it was the show's signature contribution to the modern world.I agree with this. That small explanation would have went a long way in making the story seem more plausible.The couple of coincidences bothered me a little - I do think Abrams's one mistake in assembling the thing was cutting the extended version of Spock's conversation with Kirk in the ice cave, which at least addressed the coincidence there.
As others have said, the extended cave scene would have explained those coincidences well, especially for a movie depicting our favorite heroes finding their true destiny on the Enterprise.