Exactly! The lack of women was a problem, one that could have been adressed by the writers. Instead, they chose to give the action, save the universe, stuff to the men and have Uhura's growth confined to her relationship with a male character in a romantic relationship.
Boys save the universe. Girls are girlfriends.
Nothing would have prevented Uhura from giving comfort to Spock even if they were not in a relationship. It would have provided a starting point for one and kept us from the painful scene where Spock is forced to change a ship assignment by his girlfriend.
Having the relationship already established weakened both characters. The loss of Vulcan would have given us a reason why they were drawn together.
And *I* think that having them in a relationship strengthens both characters for later stories, plus it shows the audience that THIS version of Star Trek is NOT the same as the TOS. . .so there
. . .and you are still ignoring the fact that it was because of Uhura that the Enterprise got to Vulcan with it's shields up. . .her knowledge saved the ship. . . and you are also ignoring that both Sulu and Chekov had "funny moments of fail" that they had to redeem themselves from earlier in the movie, while Uhura didn't. . . Uhura is a linguist. . .she knows 83% of the languages in the Federation plus all 3 dialects of Romulan. . .*that* is what she is the best at. . why would they show her as a whiz at the transporter, or combat. . . if I only read your opinion, I'd think girlfriend is ALL that Uhura is. . .and that's not the movie I saw. . . ~FS

She really only had four or five moments during the entire series where she stood out.