My mom annoys me, I want to do volunteer work in a nursing home. I visited 2 and planned to visit a third. Place 1 is close to me but my dad lives there now and neglected my emails asking for the necessary paperwork, place 2 is in a different county but doesn't have my dad and immediately provided papers to start volunteer work.
In the end the paperwork for place 1 was filed, I cancelled the visit to place 3 and said to place 2 I already found volunteer work somewhere else. My social assistant said that I could still file the paperwork for place 2, but I declined. I don't want to do volunteer work in 2 places, the paperwork has to filled again which means I have to wait AGAIN! No thank you.
But my mom was pissed, she said my social assistant forced her ideas on me. We spend the whole morning arguing through emails and by noon I got sick of it so I send an angry email and asked to leave me alone. I'm 31, I'm not a child. I don't have to explain myself to her, I'm a grown woman. I know what I do and what the consequences are. I don't need my mom getting angry on my behalf and jump to wrong conclusions, I'm too old for that shit
