Actually, I shop in the men's department quite often! Again, because I am motivated by quality, and men's clothes are far superior in this regard, in fact, it's astonishing the difference in quality. Plus, hardly any women's clothes there fit me, mostly because they assume a woman is rarely going to be 5' 9", which is probably true, but doesn't work so well for me! And they sew all of these terrible panels on the front of tops which look horrendous on anybody who isn't terribly well endowed. Not to mention the fact few tops pass my belly button, which is not so cool when I don't want to let it all hang out, especially in the winter! So if I'm not going to go made-to-measure, I had better find unconventional ways of dressing myself.
Since I have decided to make life impossible for myself by refusing to go around in ill-fitting things, I face almost equal, but different problems in the men's department... I find Zara cuts everything too square, there is very little detailing and sculpting going on, they have a not very endearing quality of making me look as though I'm carrying more weight than I actually am. It is possible you do not need this sort of stuff, because your male physique would compensate for it, whereas I require it to be narrower on the shoulders, have a bit of a waist, give less room on the upper arms, etc etc (as you know women aren't likely to carry much muscle mass on the upper body).
A Zara jacket or shirt would hang from me in an utterly shapeless and unflattering way (which is not at all helped by the quality of the materials). I have a problem with the necks, too, they are usually far too big and make my proportions look all wrong. I don't actually want to look too much like a scrawny teenage boy. Then there is the quality of the materials (which I've mentioned before) - completely unforgiving, clinging where it shouldn't and hanging where it should. Zara feel altogether roomier and more relaxed in general. It may be that is what you prefer and like, although if I remember correctly, your build cannot be much bigger than mine, I would imaging we're not very extremely dissimilar, you're quite slight for your sex, and I'm certainly not typically petite. However, being that we're of different races, sexes, and heights, we probably have no business being in the same shop ever!
One thing I'll stick with, is Zara's fibres are quite outrageously bad for the price (not as bad as H&M, granted), they look pretty but there's no substance. If you want fun tops and jackets, a similar style of shop as far as casual preppy wear goes is Jack Wills, I don't know if they have a few branches where you are, and they charge about double Zara, but you can see the difference in quality. Same with SuperDry, who charge a little less but the quality and detailing is still excellent - although they are slightly more urban and don't do blazers and such, they have a lot of funky t-shirts, tops, and jackets. Neither of these do square cuts of any kind. I would say the detailing is really excellent considering the price - of a similar quality as Ralph Lauren Polo if you want a point of reference, without the over-sizing issues - they still don't do an extra small, which is useless if you're not broad and muscle-bound, a small is going to make you look saggy and unremarkable (considering the price you've paid), especially around the upper arms, I don't know how built they expect people to be. I know boys my age with a similar frame to myself, and I don't know where they expect these types to shop. I guess they just won't shop in certain places if they want something that actually fits.
I have been looking for a white button shirt, the simplest thing in the world you'd think, but it has been mission impossible! High street stores were bad due to quality. Polo thinks everyone is a jock. SuperDry does massive stiff collars. A&F assume your neck is about the thickness of a tree trunk. Many others I rejected because they were see-through in some lights, which is not the best thing when you have chosen a shirt because it is white, but the colour of your skin is peeping through, making it appear not quite as crisp as I'd like.
I have had a similar problem with finding a simple white t-shirt with no logos, which isn't see through, or just generally bad quality. Any suggestions would be welcome at this point, as I'd like to have them in time for the warm weather. I'll put a price cap on those though, no more than the ballpark figure of the brands I mentioned above, any more and I object on principle! Perhaps if I were shopping for a handmade silk top to use on a special occasion, that would be one thing, but I'm talking cotton, basic, daily wear!
Frustration at these two items are mainly the reason I put up this whole topic. What ever happened to the simple good stuff?
