I can't stand the Inner Light and find it boring trash. Everyone else loves it.

My best friend has recently got into Star Trek TNG and DS9 and agreed with me. First person to ever agree with me on that episode!
Well, now you know another one. I HATE that episode. I really hate it. And here is why:
For several years, we got hardly zero character development on Picard past his Starfleet/Command background and Federation party-line positions. And now all of a sudden we are launched into this sickly sweet tear-jerker drama about 'what if' he had been this warm fuzzy family man? GAH!

I find that episode almost embarrassing to watch, it's so....utterly outside the character we had seen up until that point.
With
The Visitor, we had plenty of lead in. Ben and Jake had ALWAYS been shown to be a family - they had always been shown to be 3-dimensional people who had lives and interests outside of what takes place on the bridge of a starship. Little bits and pieces of their personal hopes, dreams, disappointments, pain, and ongoing family drama can be found all through DS9. It doesn't all just come out of nowhere in a single episode.
With Picard, we had very little of that sort of character development. Almost everything we knew about Picard up until that point was directly related to his Starfleet career.
So when they launched into this
Inner Light touchy-feely Picard, it actually made me embarrassed and uncomfortable. I felt like a voyeur who wasn't supposed to look...who wasn't supposed to know this much...because the TNG writers themselves had built this massive wall around the character of Picard, and stuck a giant sign on that wall which read "KEEP OUT. I AM A STARSHIP CAPTAIN. MY "FEELINGS" ARE NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS."
I think the Visitor is one of the greatest pieces of Trek. But I can certainly understand why people wouldn't like it. It's a reset button episode and could be argued to be pointless. Not that I necessarily agree but I can understand that viewpoint.
Different strokes for different folks.
I honestly don't understand why people have such a problem with the reset button. I mean, I could understand it if it was used all the time...but there are very few instances of the reset button being used in DS9.
And regardless, this was not a story about 'events' as much as it was a story about 'feelings'. And the reset button was just a vehicle by which those feelings were illustrated. The things that we learn about this relationship are still true, even after the rest button is pressed. Because this episode was never about the
actions. It was about the
feelings. And those feelings don't change when the action is reset.