To be fair Bonnie has suffered lots, but Elena has also lost her father, mother, bio dad/uncle, bio mom and aunt. Caroline's life has also not been a picnic. I just don't care about the Salvatores and the Elena love. I would like all 3 of them better if they just spent some time apart. Klaus leaves no room for those that disappoint him. I suppose Caroline is going to be added to that list now since she helped distract him. I suppose Elijah is off to brood Angel-style at this point? Finn and mommy dearest are probably out to hatch another kill the family plot. I wonder what Meredith is up to? Poor Alaric dies again?