Oh, Sector 7, you are way tooo easy.
BTW, using the Boston Tea Party in a post about avoiding conflict, doesn't actually cut the mustard, although, to be fair to you, it's probably a good illustration of why neither of us would be suited to First Contact situations.
Please re-read my post. Perhaps I should explain it in simpler terms:
1) Nice people try to get along wherever they are.
2) You may not be trying to do that since you don't seem to adapt to new countries and situations.
3) I, however, try to adapt to the countries where I have been.
4)
IF you had been at
First Contact... yada yada, it would have been
LIKE the Boston Tea Party with you causing a war over tea or some such.
I have done well in First Contact situations throughout the globe. Perhaps it is because of my belief in IDIC rather than criticizing those who do things differently (tea included). The whole
point of my post/response was about
avoiding conflict rather than causing it by complaining about other customs. Hopefully this will help your understanding.