I think you know that you and I have polar opposite opinions on that issue and the implications around that. I would kindly ask that we do not rekindle that debate here.
In fairness, you don't have to ever engage. If I see a post that I don't want to interact with, I don't. But what you are asking essentially is to silence an opinion you don't agree with, and is that really right? I get that you may not like the topic, but believe it or not, neither do I, yet it is fair game. This is the Superman/Lois thread. Superman has existed in the Arrowverse for awhile. I am not even close to the only person who thinks the way I do. It's a legit concern of the upcoming show, one that only time will answer. Sometimes the writers hear the complaints and understand them. A perfect example of that was after the first season of the cartoon Justice League. Fans also did not like how Superman was treated and the writers acknowledged it, and improved.
There have been plenty of bad takes on Superman. I don't think they have made a decent movie since Superman II. If you think about it--how is that possible with this character? He does work well, as Lois and Clark and Smallville and the cartoons show. But Hollywood has struggled with understanding what makes Superman tick.
I'm hoping that with different writers, they can rehabilitate this version. That hope will exist until the show proves me wrong, which may not happen with a different writing staff. Also note that as much as I dislike this interpretation of the character, I have never, and would never, ask someone with the opposite opinion not to express it. That defeats the purpose of these message boards and discussions.
The same is true of the source material. Batman has a veritable platoon of sidekicks and so does The Flash in the comics. Superman had Supergirl and now not one, but two Superboys. True, many of these characters don't appear in every issue of the comics as regulars, but it certainly feels like they are

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I haven't read comics in awhile, but when I did, one thing was always clear--the title character was the focus. Obviously, I can't say this is true for every single issue of every single comic, but I don't remember Superman or Batman ever getting lost in the shuffle with big arcs, and if they did, it was something intentional and special, like say Reign of the Superman, when Clark was dead.
That was a different animal.
Flash last year felt like it didn't have enough Barry Allen. Why are seeing storylines for Cisco's girlfriend? Or Iris' coworker? Why are these people regulars? Same on Supergirl. I don't watch that show to listen to Dreamer or Alex or Kelly Olsen. I think Flash should focus on the most important characters--Barry, Iris, Cisco, Caitlin, Ralph and Joe. I think Supergirl should focus on Kara, J'onn, Brainiac, the Luthors, with the supporting cast just supporting them.
The other characters of course can exist, but they shouldn't be anymore than backup. I don't give a damn about their love lives or their angst. They should stick to the title characters.