Yeah, the Alex Ross Superman is perfect. I like how he embraces the S symbol as the most important aspect of the outfit as opposed to shying away from / justifying it by shrinking it (Returns) or texturising it (Man Of Steal)
I hate the texturizing. But the Ross S tends to swallow the whole suit.
For most of his existence, Superman had a classic look, and both Reeve and Reeves wore that look with pride. I don't understand the current need to mess with it. Nor do I understand this need to make a "dark" Superman. Superman ain't dark. Damn it.
Great retrospective here, btw: http://dccomicsartists.com/superart/superart.html
As for the new suit, I hate the muted colors and the rubber thing. I do like the cape. And if that really is the Earth-2 S on there, I'm seriously happy.