Just wanted to report back that I did give him the hug indeed, and while I was close to him whispered "I want to give you a hug because I know the past months have not been good for you" (I had planned to say "difficult" or "not nice" but that's what came out) and he whispered back "Thank you!" and then held me tight and we posed for the photographer who was patiently waiting (the line was not very long)
I know this is not the Vic fangirl thread but if you or anyone else is interested in some pictures, let me know. I got quite a few funny poses, he willingly did everything I suggested while chuckling to himself. I even got a lift

My weekend was then made complete by a personal song played at the piano in the hotel lobby. I couldn't have asked for more.
Excuse me while I float away on cloud 9.
To be somewhat on topic at least - I don't think this counts as a secret. He stated quite firmly that this has been the last fundraiser when I asked whether there will be more.