Agree. I don't think it "decanonizes" ENT because the explanation given allows for multiple outcomes.
But like I said upthread I see a lot of borrowing going on here.
True, in that it still leaves things vague enough as to whether the ending is a "returning" to that one moment. Every doorway to her could allow for a unique variation to appear and we only saw one.
It did and that is slightly disappointing. We had a decent idea for a followup to one of TOS's stronger stories, only to have it borrow from some of TNG's weaker ones.
So I compliment them on the acting distracting from a lot of that, and I admit even with staring at the sets so much I missed the little differences in the Defiant set.