A few weeks ago, before I undertook the whole comedy/parody reorganization, Randy PMed me and said I was the source of misinformation on some items at my website that I had, in fact, carefully checked. We had a heated, private exchange. I realize you were not a party to that exchange. However, relations between us were not all happy and nice long before he posted this, and I mistook him for somebody who does not, in fact, have a website at all, and is not the productive and creative person that he is. He has a great website he is building a great set, he'll probably produce a great fan film. I can understand why you would admire him and want to support him.
First of all, none of that has anything to do with me, nor my opinion of Randy -- who I assume refers to Potemkin.
I don't know that I agreed with or supported him beyond simply pointing out that things were getting heated in the thread, and that it would probably benefit everyone if we all took a step back and calmed down. I said that primarily because the LAST time I tried to offer anyone any constructive criticism or suggestion in this forum, it became dragged out and convoluted in to a major melodrama by someone who absolutely refused to be reasonable or mature about the situation.
This time around, I'm not even bothering. I simply suggested we all just dial it back a bit. If you go back and re-read my first post in this thread, it says pretty much that, in addition to my admittedly cursory review of this thread, a suggestion which I thought (at the time) might be helpful. Clearly it isn't, as you've explained and I have thus redacted and apologized for my (uninformed) suggestion.
I have been told in the course of this exchange that asking any question is an invitation to any answer, no matter how unresponsive. His answer was unresponsive to my question, and you jumped in to support him.
That's a leap from one discussion (of which I have not taken part in), so it makes little sense to try to connect me to it. Again, I was and am simply responding based on what I read in this thread.
I do not think that deciding to not, therefore, ask questions is 'passive aggressive.' I think it is logical.
Not asking more questions based on the reaction you've gotten so far would be logical. Announcing that you will no longer be asking questions is the passive-aggressive part.
First of all, there's no need for such a statement, let alone that course of action. This is an open forum where many things are discussed, so it's only logical (there's that word again) that there will be many, differing points of view to be read.
I am still (almost completely) at a loss as to how this all spiraled out of control and wound up here.
I'm going to assume for a moment that you take great pride in your website and the work you put in to it,
Barb. Hand in hand with that, I will also assume you appreciate whatever positive feedback, kudos, compliments and other supportive reactions you receive for the work you put in to it. It may not be the reason behind why you post the site or work on it, but it's natural to appreciate being appreciated.
Likewise however, you now have a voice. A public voice through which you speak and promote the fan productions. It's out there and people read it. That's a great thing. But the one thing everyone seems to forget when they do this kind of thing is that it's still open to public commentary, both good and bad, positive and negative, and yes, useful and useless.
To suggest now that because the comments you received in this thread (from what, a total of three people?) are so useless to you that you will no longer ask any more questions is not only passive-aggressive, it's downright insulting.
You saw the nasty, pointless road both Potemkin and I had to go down with another reviewer, despite numerous attempts to make peace and logic out and reason with said reviewer. It did not end, I think, in a place where any of us were happy with the result but there was little else to be done. It was a temper-tantrum that never ended. Is that what this is, or can we re-boot and try again? Because I'd very much like to ... I like your website a lot and think it's a great, useful tool in terms of finding other productions and will be quite beneficial to the rest of the fan film community.
Can't we put this all behind us and simply start over again?