My favourite part of the Moll-Jayme thing was how utterly unbothered about it being a homosexual relationship everyone was. Many people tried to say things against it (usually to dissuade Jayme) but it was always the same kind of "she's out of league", "she doesn't date" type stuff that a guy would get in a similar situation.
Yeah, the same way Kira in "Rejoined" couldn't see a single good reason why Jadzia couldn't get back together with Lenara Khan. Gender was just a non-issue. Naturally that was going to be the case in Trek's enlightened future, but it was a big deal back then for a work of fiction to show it that way.
Which gives the lie to Rick Berman's excuse that they were avoiding LGBTQ characters because they were waiting for the right story to explore the issue. The key is not to treat people's very existence as an "issue" to be debated, but just include them as characters and treat their relationships just as matter-of-factly as everyone else's, like the modern shows do with Stamets and Culber or Adira and Gray.