I wish people would just be honest about why they dislike these films (they dislike the creators) instead of coming up with these insane reasons that don't make any sense.
Here's one. I think the message about how weaponizing Starfleet is wrong falls flat on it's face when the Enterprise has more torpedo launchers than all the previous Enterprise ships combined. Hard to argue your ships aren't ready for war when they can fire more torpedoes than the Enterprise D could on full spread.