But I never actually felt that way about Enterprise.
But many people did. That's my point. The newest version of Trek always seems irreconcilable to some people, because it's different from their existing mental model of Trek. But over time, the new thing becomes part of the overall model. Fandom adjusts, and the initial perception that it's irreconcilable fades.
This always happens. And it will happen this time too.
Star Trek is not immutable. Our perception of it now is drastically different than it was in the 1980s. It has changed before, and it will change again.
True, but not an exact parallel as David did not have a sibling on the show for years. Sybok they explained because he was a black sheep. It was pretty clear in TFF why we have not heard of him before. TWOK explained to my satisfaction why we never heard of David before. And Discovery may yet explain why Burnham ends up being Syboked by the Sarek household.
Why does it need explanation? Spock never mentioned
a single dadblamed one of his family members to his crewmates until they actually showed up on the ship. He never mentioned his father was the Vulcan Ambassador. He never mentioned he was engaged to be married. So why the hell is it even remotely surprising that he never mentioned his sister?? It would be more out of character if he
had mentioned her! It bewilders me that anyone thinks this is an issue.
I don't have a problem with that. It's when the showrunners do pretzel twists trying to convince us it should fit pretty nicely in the existing continuity when it really doesn't.
None of it really does. The movies don't fit with TOS. TNG doesn't fit with TOS. They just
pretend to fit, and we choose to pretend along with them. The "existing continuity" is a hodgepodge of contradictions that we've just learned to handwave away or disregard.
Indeed, there have been past Trek productions that actually were intended by their creators to be soft reboots. TMP was a soft reboot that reinvented the entire visual language of the universe and upgraded the technology. TWOK was meant to be a soft reboot that ignored TMP, and played fast and loose with the details of "Space Seed." TNG was intended by Roddenberry to be a soft reboot that cherrypicked the bits from TOS and the movies that he liked and ignored the rest. It was only later on that subsequent creators decided to stitch them all together more closely and treat them as a unified whole.
Personally, I think Trek is long overdue for a full reboot. I think that would be interesting to see, and a
real reboot from scratch would be able to make far more extensive changes than what Kelvin or DSC have been able to do. But the tendency in Trek has long been toward consolidation, even of things that originally weren't intended to fit with what had come before. I don't expect that to change. No matter how different DSC seems, future Trek creators in a decade or two are probably going to treat it as part of the same whole as everything else.
Now in a perfect worlds, sure, it would be nice to have a relatively clean timeline. But if they just came out and said it's a reboot, then they wouldn't need to try to explain why it all should fit, they wouldn't tick off some fans, and then they could pick and choose what they'd like to retain from the existing continuity and just say anything that doesn't fit is because it's a reboot.
Creators worrying about what will tick off fans is a self-destructive exercise.
Anything that you can possibly do will tick off some segment of the fanbase.